Let me ask you a question…
… the last time someone complimented you – on your outfit, or maybe on something you did – did you like that person more or less?
You instinctively felt like you liked them more, right?
It’s a natural human response.
So why do so many people say the way to get a man to like you is to never compliment him?
Never say nice things, never acknowledge his efforts.
If you want someone to like you, say nice things that make them like you!
I don’t mean say nice things that aren’t true (because this will backfire)…
I mean being honest and authentic in praising people when they do something worth praise.
There are 3 specific moments where I think complimenting a guy will make him like you way more.
We like people who make us feel good.
Give your guy authentic compliments at the right time, in the right way, and he’ll fall for you fast.
Learn the three types of compliments that will melt his heart and make him yours.
P.S. Part of what makes a compliment so effective is that it shows you’re secure enough in yourself to say nice things about other people.
It projects confidence, and there are few things more attractive to a man than a confident woman.
If you want to learn how to develop irresistible confidence, check out my program Men Love Confident Women.
3 Compliments That Make a Man’s Heart Melt Summary
Has anyone ever given you the advice that you’re not supposed to compliment a guy, because the moment you show interest is the moment he loses interest?
That by ignoring him, you’re secretly transmitting energy that you want him to come to you?
Well let me tell you, whoever says this has no idea they’re talking about.
It turns out a great compliment is one of the most powerful tools in your arsenal of charm.
But a lot of women don’t know how to compliment a man.
The key to a good compliment is giving them out authentically and when they’re earned.
Here’s the deal…
The 3 Best Compliments for a Guy
#1: The Positive reinforcement compliment
Reinforcing good behavior is a great way to compliment a guy.
Did he call you instead of text you after a date? Say something like:
I really appreciate a guy who’s willing to call instead of text.
Did he go out of his way and fix your stove when you told him it was broken? Say something like:
Wow, you’re so handy. You can fix just about anything, can’t you?
Did he listen to you vent for 20 minutes about your boss? Tell him
Thank you for being such a great listener. You really know how to be there for someone.
#2: You believe in him and support him and that he’s generally doing a good job (if he’s doing a good job)
It’s really nice to receive praise from just people in our lives…
… but when we receive it from a woman that we’re really into, it charges us to succeed in ways we never knew possible.
#3: The classic physical compliment
You don’t want to overuse this, but it’s certainly useful if you don’t have any other compliments to give and you’re just feeling it in the moment.
It will make him feel great.
What are some compliments that you’ve received from men that have made your heart melt? I love to hear from you in the comments right below.