Quick quiz, pick the answer that definitely means a guy is flirting with you:
A. A guy tells you he thinks you’re funny.
B. A guy tells you he likes your eyes.
C. A guy speaks to you with a calm, quiet confidence.
All of these can feel like flirting, but only one of them definitely is.
It can be hard to tell sometimes.
Cosmo likes to give you advice that makes it seem like flirting is always obvious, but the truth is…
… well …
… it’s more complicated.
Watch this video to find out 3 clear signs he’s flirting with you (and not just being nice).
When you can clearly pick up the signs that he’s flirting, you’ll have the confidence to flirt back…
… and from there you’re off to the races.
P.S. The answer was B.
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One of the most difficult components of finding love is knowing how someone actually feels about you…
… especially early on when you’re meeting new people.
There’s a ton of evidence out there that shows men tend to over-perceive sexual interest from women…
… while women tend to under-perceive sexual interest from men.
This is why a lot of women ask me if I can help them figure out, “Is he flirting with me?”
Yes I can.
3 Signs He’s Flirting With You:
1. If You’re a Woman, and You Think a Guy’s Flirting, Then He’s Probably Flirting
When you’re getting out there and meeting new people, it’s important to start listening to your gut more.
Your brain will play tricks on you.
It has a way of inserting your insecurities into a situation that shouldn’t be there.
When you meet someone and you get that feeling that he’s flirting with you, then it’s probably true.
Be confident that he would want a woman like you, and don’t doubt yourself.
2. He Compliments You on Something Physical
This might be tough advice for some of you women to stomach, but it’s true.
Men are almost always initially drawn to a woman physically.
Then, as time goes on, the emotional attraction develops and we decide that we want something more than just sex.
So often, when a guy’s initially interested in you, he has nothing else to say or to think about other than how beautiful you are.
It’s less of a problem of men being disgusting pigs and more of a problem of men being unoriginal.
3. He Acts Nervous or Awkward When He’s Talking to You
I think a lot of women give men way too much credit when it comes to flirting.
Most guys suck at flirting.
And when we do it, we usually fumble around a lot, especially when we really like you.
It’s frustrating because so much dating advice out there for women assumes that men are actually good at flirting.
I hear so many dating experts say things like, “If he likes you, he’ll confidently approach you, lightly touch your hair, and ask you out as if you were the only woman in the room.”
But the reality is, 90% of guys are not that smooth.
If a guy is being friendly, he’s not going to be nervous or fumbling around, he’s just being friendly with you.
But if he is flirting, he’ll usually be fumbling around with his words, or being awkward…
… and that’s okay.
Have you ever seen any of these signs of men flirting? How’d it go? Comment below to share with this amazing community.
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