My secret guilty pleasure…
Relaxing with a tub of Ben and Jerry’s ice cream and watching back to back romantic comedies on Netflix.
There, I said it.
And I know I’m not alone.
The only problem with Hollywood movies is that they ruin your expectations.
When was the last time you actually experienced a “meet cute” with a handsome stranger in central park?
Finding your soulmate might not play out like it does in the movies, but it doesn’t have to be rocket science either. Watch the video and discover the 3 steps to attracting your soulmate and finding true love.
I’m not sure I know a single couple in real life that could turn their relationship into a Hollywood movie.
But that’s a good thing.
Because you don’t have to leave your love life up to chance.
There’s a much more practical approach to attracting your soulmate and finding true love.
And I break it all down in this video.
Watch it now and let me know what you think in the comments.
P.S. If you’re really ready to attract your soulmate, this Sunday, July 23rd at 2 PM I will be launching a BRAND new course call Attract “The One” Academy. Keep an eye out in your email for more details on Sunday.
Tired of the unrealistic expectations set by Hollywood and Disney?
Here are three practical steps for finding your soulmate:
1. Be Your Own Soulmate First
Self-care and self-love is critical to finding love. As I always say, be attracted to yourself to live a life full of love.
I remember once I had this client named Amy.
Amy had a nasty habit of sabotaging any good chance of a relationship with a great guy.
She would do erratic things or even say things that she knew he wouldn’t like so that he would end up not wanting to be around her.
Ultimately, what we uncovered is that she was doing this because she secretly felt like she didn’t deserve love.
It wasn’t until she found Sexy Confidence and all the principles that I teach here, where she was really able to deeply connect with her own purpose and really start to love herself.
I know it sounds cheesy, but it’s true and it’s so important to literally fall in love with herself again, what value she brings to a relationship, and what values she brings to the world.
I’d love to hear from you in the comments, what value do you bring to the world?
What unique gift do you bring?
2. Open Your Heart to the Idea of Having a Soulmate
Now, I get it.
You’ve been burned in the past and maybe you’ve been cheated on, even emotionally abused, or even physically abused.
Or maybe you’ve gone through a divorce or a really, really rough breakup.
Or maybe, on the other side of the spectrum, you’ve never even experienced love, so you don’t even think it exists.
I’m here to tell you one thing: you deserve love.
Your heart can be available for true love if you’re willing to take that risk.
Is it going to be easy? No.
Nothing that’s ever worthwhile is super easy.
But will it be worth it when your soulmate has his arms wrapped around you?
3. Eliminate Men Who Are Clearly Not Your Soulmate
I believe that we have a finite amount of emotional energy.
The more time that you waste on short-term flings or with a guy who is never ever, going to commit to you, then the less energy you’re going to have to be available for a soulmate.
I know, it definitely sucks and sometimes you might want to have a guy on the side who you can just kind of see casually.
But by having that situation, it will mean that in the long-term, you’re going to be much more available for the right guy to fully come in and get to know you and be able to connect with you.