“I have VERY high standards.”
“I’m VERY picky.”
These two statements can be a “nail in the coffin” when it comes to your love life. No joke.
If you’ve already put up a wall around yourself to keep 99% of men from ever having a chance…
….how can you possibly end up finding the RIGHT guy for you?
The scary truth:
You’re probably NOT going to meet the right guy this decade if you’re too picky right off the bat.
Check out the video below and you’ll see why:
After you watch this video your eyes might open up to some very real possibilities about love that you never even considered.
Let me know what you think in the comments below 🙂
PS Already have an idea of what a “Dream Man” is for you?
1. You don’t do a second date unless you absolutely fall in love with him on the first date.
Look, if you go on a first date with someone, so long as there’s even a slight potential that it could work out… give him that second date. Having high standards when choosing a partner is important, but being too picky can lead to problems in dating.
I don’t care if the dude’s got gray hair or if he’s even a little bit awkward. Give him that chance. Guys can sometimes be really nervous on that first date, so you’re really not getting a chance to get to know him until the second date.
2. You don’t like the guys who pursue you because of the fact that they’re pursuing you.
If you only go for guys who don’t like you, you will die alone and miserable.
At some point you’ll have to grow up and realize that you have to accept some of the advances from the guys who are legitimately interested in you rather than only trying to chase down the bad boy type. Or if you don’t do that, you’ll end up being that weird old cat lady down the street who died about twenty years ago, but still no one knows.
3. You haven’t had a relationship in over 3 years and you’ve wanted a relationship for the past 3 years.
If it’s been that long, you’re searching for something that probably doesn’t exist. You want love but are too picky with men. You’ve become stuck with your impossibly high standards.
You might think you want the unicorn until, of course, you start dating the unicorn.
4. You want contradictory things in a guy.
Maybe you only want guys who are super impulsive and exciting, while at the same time, you only want guys who are super secure and stable… you are too picky for love.
You only want guys who are super successful and doing great things in their lives, maybe even run their own business. At the same time, you only want a guy who will make all the time in the world for you… you are too picky for love.
You only want guys who are really, really smooth at picking you up, while at the same time you don’t want a guy who flirts with other women… you are too picky for love.
These are totally contradictory because usually if you get one, you can’t have the other. It’s a total trade off.
So there it is, the four signs that you are too picky for love. Now it’s time to hear from you. Are you too picky for love? I want to hear from you in the comments below.
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