As we all know, men love sex, and a lot of them would rather just “hook up” than commit. No surprise there, right? So, you agree to his “boundaries.”
However, sometimes, you begin seeing a guy casually, and then, just like clockwork, you start to actually have FEELINGS for him.
But then, it’s time to face the scary question: does he actually “feel” anything for you beyond just being a “typical, horny guy?”
Watch this video to learn the 5 signs that show he’s developing a true emotional connection versus just a physical connection.
Tweetable: Men feel things too…OK?
So, now that you have a few telltale signs to watch for, I’d like you to share some of your sexual versus emotional experiences with men.
Can women actually enjoy casual, non-emotional sex?
Let’s speak next week.
Adam
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Why thank you 🙂
Haha great video Adam! I always struggle to figure out what a guy is really looking for.
Hi Bell, it can be tough, I know. Men are crazy, but you just need to stay as objective as possible, and when you see the warning signs…GET OUT!
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Hi Jessica, sorry about that. Try again, it should work now. I blame youtube 🙂
Yep! Worked now! And I think it was operator error 😉
Why do so many of us women, me too, sleep with men for no reason and then wonder why they won’t commit to us!!! I have played myself this way too many times.
Men (and women too) put VALUE on something they work for. If something comes to easily, regardless of how attractive that girl may be, a guy will still assume that she is not high value. It’s just how men are wired…
Well, not every man. Most of My Great long-term relationships were with sex on the first date or not so far from the beginning.
I guess, past experience taught me other proportions between time invested and value received 😉
Of course, it all depends on a guy, etc. I’m just one man opinion, which doesn’t give you your definite answer
So, keep watching Adam’s videos..
Thank you so much for this. It really helped me out and was exactly what I needed to hear to accept some realities of my life these last few months. So thank you 🙂
Hi Hannah, you’re very welcome. 🙂 I wish you the best moving forward.
Great video! And ooooh so true 🙂
Thanks Kirsten 🙂
Adam, I’m getting very mixed signals from this guy I have been seeing and I am hoping you can help me see it for what it is. We were friends for years before ever hooking up but we decided to start as friends with benefits because we both had gone through recent breakups a few months back. We haven’t been hanging out with other people but we share many of the same friends and he seems okay with those friends knowing about us hooking up. He texts me from morning until we go to bed and we talk and laugh… Read more »
Thank you for your video on the 5 signs that hes emotionally attracted to you versus physically attracted to you. I also will be taking the time to ask “Should I be dating other people?” Thank you for your insight.
Thanks for your video – it made me feel so hurt and so ashamed The truth is I have been seeing this man for 2 and a half years -its all sex and friendship and I love him very much. I just cant let him go as I am more addicted to him than drugs alcohol cigarettes whatever – I am addicted to love – and only love. My mind simply refuses to understand that he is only in to me for the sex. He has been very honest with the fact that he was not in love with me… Read more »
Adam, you are a star! You must have hundreds of messages from girls who invite you out.:)
Hi Mr. Lo Dolce. The guy I’m into is Italian too so maybe you can help me. (I am also part Italian lol.) Ok, so I am older than he is and have more money than he does. I pay for all our dates. Not a problem, don’t mind it. Lately he has begun doing sweet things for me and fixing broken stuff around the house. He swore up and down he didn’t like me that way but is beginning to act like he does. I am taking it hella slow and letting him court me. You say if a… Read more »
Hey Adam, have you done any blogs about dating in the work place? Things are a bit different there as people are on their best behavior….are they flirting or just being nice???
3 out of the 5 he did… but his action speak so much louder than what he says…. then he fell off the face of the earth. Why??? I’ve been lost ever since.
Hi Adam- I am in my fifties, but still very vibrant and attractive (I’m told) with much to offer a man. It is incredibly sad to me that most men I meet just want to hook up. They will not even try to be sly about it. One day they act crazy about me, then they vanish if they don’t get what they want after a couple of dates. On the other hand, if you do put out too soon they leave too…I can’t win. I can’t understand why I continually attract men who just want to toy with me.… Read more »
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My head is turning into a pretzel. I have a man I want but didn’t want me. After a blissful few months, he rejected me hard. Determined to not come back to my town. Then he calls me before Christmas & wants to spend time with me & wanted to have a ‘talk’. Like ‘true confessions’. Seems he can’t resist me, was missing me…talking to his friends that he was never coming back here, told me he had no intention of being back, hung his head & it’s like he couldn’t resist the impulse. I’ve been on his brain. His… Read more »
Hi Adam- I’m in my early 20s
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