The “ugly duckling” in middle school never received any ‘positive attention’ from the boys in the cafeteria. It’s just a sad, natural truth. Men are highly visual creatures, and thus, beautiful women catch our attention very quickly.
But, the real question is, do you actually have to be “pretty” to attract great guys in your life?
Or, is there something else that matters more?
In this video, I will discuss the role of whether or not looks truly matter to guys and what you can do about it.
Now that you understand that looks do matter (but with minimal diminishing returns), it’s time to stop focusing all of your energy on your physical beauty.
Instead, I’d like to challenge you to begin focusing your energies on something that you actually CAN control, improving your personality. So, this is your homework. In the comments section, I’d like you to jot down something you’d like to improve about yourself, specifically relating to how you convey yourself to others.
Could you be more passionate?
Could you tell more intriguing stories?
Could you make people laugh more?
Could you be a better listener?
Think honestly and openly with yourself about what you want to improve upon.
Thank you, as always, for reading, watching, and sharing!