Maybe you sent him a text saying “I had fun last night,”…
… or you sent a flirty emoji…
… or a ridiculous gif…
… bit he didn’t respond back.
It’s an icy dagger through the heart, causing panic, confusion, and desperation.
What should you do in this situation?
Do you call him to see if he’s alive – maybe he was in a freak gasoline fight accident? (Extra points if you get the movie reference…)
Do you send him 5 more texts (maybe he didn’t notice the first message)?
Do you send him a bitmoji (maybe your text needed more expression)?
Check out this video to find out what to do if he isn’t responding to your texts.
If he isn’t responding to your texts, don’t panic, and don’t freak out.
Watch this video, and you’ll know what to do.
P.S. Even though it’s such a big part of dating, no one ever taught us how to actually text our romantic partners to get the right responses.
That’s why I created Love Texting, a program that teaches everything you need to know about how to attract men and ignite their passion, all through text.
Let’s rip off the bandaid.
If he isn’t responding to your texts, he’s probably ignoring them.
How do I know?
Because no one, and I mean no one, in the First World can go longer than two hours without checking their phone.
So if you’ve sent him a text and he hasn’t responded in anywhere from two to three days, he’s ignoring you.
Here’s the reality: Guys usually don’t ignore texts from women that they actually like.
We’re actually pretty bad at playing hard to get…
… so when you do send out a text or you follow up with a guy and he is ignoring you…
The first question to ask is – is he ignoring you or was it never a thing?
Maybe you don’t know him very well, or you only went on one date with him
If that’s all it was, then he’s probably not ignoring you. It just wasn’t a relationship in the first place.
The second question to ask is – do you even know this guy?
If not, don’t allow your emotions to take over.
Don’t allow this to ruin your week or your month.
All you gotta do is say that magical four-letter word…
It’s not worth your time.
Where I come from, you don’t spend your energy on strangers who don’t spend their energy on you.
Your next step is to go off and do something amazing with your life
Do something that you can really put your time and your energy into that doesn’t have anything to do with men or relationships.
Once you create an awesome life outside of relationships, a guy will often magically appear and want to be a part of your awesome life.
If you feel that you need closure, and nothing will stop you from getting it..
… send this one text.
If he doesn’t respond, it’s over.
Here it is: I just saw something that reminded me of you.
If he responds, tell him you drove by the place you had your first date, or another place that reminds you of him.
It doesn’t really matter.
But if he doesn’t respond, it’s over.
No more analyzing, no more wishing that it could change.
Now on the other side of the spectrum, if you are dating a guy and he is ignoring you…
… it’s time to have a very real conversation with him to get to the heart of what’s happening.
Don’t attack him.
Be open and say, “Look, I want to get to the heart of this. How can we work this out?”
Have you ever been ignored and how did you respond? I want to hear from you in the comments right there below. Perhaps you can share your story, and help the other women in the community