Have you ever wondered how men fall in love? Or if it’s a different “process” than women go through when they fall in love?
If so, you’re in luck. This week’s video is a special one. It dives into the five steps most men go through when they are falling in love.
It’ll help you “see the signs” when it’s happening… or when it isn’t happening.
Watch this week’s video: “How Men Fall in Love”
Have you ever noticed these signs? Let me know in the comments below.
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I’m going be talking about how it is that men fall in love and what are the 5 steps to capturing his heart.
Finding your way to a man’s heart is kind of like solving a Law and Order crime. You need to follow the clues each step of the way in order to make it happen.
The only difference is that you’re looking for love, not murder.
So I’m gonna show you the map to a man’s heart and this map includes the 5 stages men go through as they fall in love.
Listen, it’s true. Men are very visual creatures. We fall for a woman initially just based on physical attraction. When we first see that person, if that physical attraction Isn’t there it’s unlikely that we’re going to pursue that woman. Now, this doesn’t, I cannot emphasize this enough… It doesn’t mean you have to be perfect looking in any way, shape, or form, I promise you. And I’ve coached a lot of men over the years. No matter what you look like, there are guys who will be attracted to you and your type.
So that’s the first stage. If he’s physically into you, then you can move on to the next stage: chemistry.
Does the conversation flow? Do you have things in common? Does it feel like you can just talk for hours and hours? Do you have a similar sense of humor? Do you just have great banter? Are you likeable? Is he likeable? Are you guys playful? Do you have an intellectual curiosity with one another? These are the types of things that make up chemistry, and these things really matter.
Now, the good news is that you can really improve your chemistry with men through what you say, but also your body language. Make sure you’re smiling, be open, be animated as you’re talking, and make sure you have great posture.
Most importantly, have a great attitude. Men love women who are incredibly positive, and have a great attitude & vibe. I assure you, you can really start bonding with men and creating that great chemistry you really want.
So now that he’s physically attracted to you and he likes you, this brings me to stage 3: the trust phase.
The Trust Phase
Now, believe it or not, us men, we have feelings too. And if we’re going to get emotionally involved with a woman, we want to know that we can really trust you.
So now he’s attracted to you, you have great chemistry, and he trusts you. On to the fourth stage: long-term compatibility.
Long Term Compatibility
Do you share the same values? Will this relationship logistically work? I mean… do you guys live near each other? Do you want to live in the same places? Do you want the same things out of life whether it’s children, where you want to live, and the things that you want to achieve in your life?
Now, you don’t necessarily have to have the same hobbies and interests. Those things aren’t necessary. But you do need to share the same basic values of how you live your life and what it is that you want out of life. Otherwise there’s just going to be way too much friction between the two of you.
So now let’s say that you pass all of these stages of love, you get to the final stage: the comfort stage.
The Comfort Stage
This is when you finally meet the real person you’ve been dating.
You end up becoming really comfortable with the type of person they are and as you get to know that person you really become best friends. You always wanna spend time with that person, that person supports you, wants to make you happy and works hard every single day to make you happy.
And once you reach the comfort stage, you know, that’s when the love becomes very real and very awesome.
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