So you want to learn how to make him miss you. You’ve tried every trick in the book, and you’re coming up short. You’re really trying to work the whole “absence makes the heart grow fonder” thing, but you could use some guidance on how to make him miss you.
That adage, by the way, is absolutely true. When you’ve got a good thing going with someone, he 100% should miss you and not be able to wait to see you again.
Missing someone is a sign that you truly care about them and that their presence isn’t easy to replace.
Here’s what I want you to take away from this article and video today:
There are five essential ways you can make him miss you. They are ridiculously effective when it comes to pulling on his heartstrings and keeping him all yours.
Watch this video, “How to Make a Guy Miss You,” to find out what they are.
Juliet was right: parting really is “such sweet sorrow.”
The feeling of longing and passion that happen when you miss your special someone can be part of the super-glue that keeps your relationship together.
Science backs this up, actually. Because being with someone you love produces a surge of serotonin and dopamine. The more time he spends with you, the more addicted to that surge he becomes. When he’s not with you, his body craves those chemicals.
So there you have it. Time apart = him going into withdrawal for you.
Basically, if he’s yearning for you, then you’re doing things right.
So… how do you like men to show you that they miss you? Let me know by leaving a comment below.
Your Coach,
Adam
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Summary
Nothing feels better than being told that someone we care about misses us when we’re apart. Whether it’s been 24 hours since your last date, or several weeks if you’re in a long-distance relationship, spending time apart can actually be good for things with your boo.
Not only does having time away from your boyfriend give you the opportunity to enjoy alone time or hang with your girlfriends, but it also gives you both time to reflect on the state of the relationship and appreciate that you’ve got a good thing going.
So let’s dive in and look at how to make him miss you and be chomping at the bit to see you again soon!
1. Be the Type of Woman He Would Actually Miss
Nancy and Peter always have a great time together. They crack each other up and have a language all their own. It’s clear that Peter enjoys spending time with Nancy.
On the other hand, Natasha and Boris bicker a lot when they’re together. Boris always prepares for Natasha’s nagging, because it feels like she’s always doing it. Spending time together is not a pleasure.
Guess which guy is going to miss his lady more when they’re apart?
Humans are actually very simple. Either we pursue pleasure or we avoid pain.
If, when he’s with you, he’s laughing, he enjoys your company, he’s connecting with you, and he gets compliments from you, he’s going to feel pleasure being with you, and he’s going to want more of that.
On the other hand, if your relationship is more like Boris and Natasha’s, all he’s hearing is you nagging for every little thing he does. The two of you might argue often, even though you care deeply for one another. Then all he’s going to feel is pain. This will not lead to him missing you. He may, in fact, choose to get away from you as often as he can!
The secret to how to make him miss you? Be an awesome girlfriend and partner. Greet him with a hug and a smile. Make him feel special. What man doesn’t love that?
If you have negative things to say, try holding them in. Or at least spread them out so your man doesn’t get hit by a barrage of criticism every time you’re together. Find constructive ways to bring up things that bother you, and you’ll be more likely to solve those issues than you would be by nagging him.
2. Give Him Some Space
Now, this might sound a little cliché, but one common theme I’ve noticed in all relationships is that men usually want a little more space than women do. Men are very different from women, and that’s something you’ll have to accept.
If he needs a healthy amount of space, you’ve got to give it to him in order to let him miss you.
Encourage him to go out with his bros to play basketball or drink whiskey (sorry to say, studies show he prefers to hang with his bros than with you!). Don’t spend every night of the week at his house, even if he invites you. He — just like you — needs distance from you in order to feel closer to you.
Sounds funny, but it’s true.
And while you’re at it, assess your own need for space.
If you find that you never ever want space from him, it’s time for you to start finding your own space anyway. It’s not healthy for couples to spend all their time together. It can cause you to neglect your friends, family, and self. You can start to rely too much on this man (and, in my mind, you always need just a dose of independence for yourself) and lose your identity.
So even if you don’t want space for yourself, it’s good for you both, and it’s one of the easiest ways to make him miss you.
Find things that you can do instead of looking lovingly into his eyes all day. Create your own little space away from him. It could be as simple as reading every morning with your coffee, even if you two live together. Or taking a vacation on your own.
The more space you both have, the more you’ll miss one another and have lots to talk about when you connect again. And it’ll set the course for a healthy marriage when the time comes.
Not all married couples prioritize alone time; 29% say they don’t have enough alone time or time for themselves. This is easily preventable if you take the time to carve out time independent of one another, so know that doing so now is a great relationship practice for down the road.
3. Stop Trying to Make Him Miss You
You’re trying too hard, lady.
Look, men aren’t stupid. We know when women are subtly (or not-so-subtly) trying to get our attention.
If, when you’re apart, you’re doing the following things, this isn’t how to make him miss you. It is, however, a good way to annoy him and even push him away. And it’s juvenile. You’re not 17. You can do better.
- Tagging him in photos on Facebook, even if he wasn’t with you when you took them
- Sending him a Snapchat every ten minutes to get his attention
- Texting his friends to see what they’re up to
- Posting pictures with other guys on Instagram to make him a little jealous
The best way to make him miss you is…
Wait for it…
To be absent. You’re not really absent if you’re popping up on social media or text every five seconds. When you’re apart, go away.
I mean that with love, my dear. But you don’t need to constantly pop up in his feed for him to think about you and make him miss you. The less you’re around, the more likely he is to reach out to get your attention.
But don’t just sit around with your arms crossed, willing him to miss you. Get a life. Find things to do. That way you’ll have much to talk about, and you won’t be sitting around, hoping he’ll text.
4. Move Slower Than He Wants
I know where you went wrong.
You didn’t take control of the pace of the relationship.
You didn’t let him miss you.
You gave all of yourself to him right from the start, and then there was nothing to miss. A lot of women assume that just because a guy really wants to keep seeing them, they should let him, that they should be as available as he wants them to be.
However, my advice is to put the brakes on.
Let him have space. Let him yearn for you a little bit because that space is going to allow you to get to know each other slowly, which ultimately is better for the foundation of a solid and committed relationship.
I’ve seen it happen far too often: couples spend every waking moment together from the start. They have sex soon. Then things fizzle within weeks, and nobody knows what happened.
I know what happened. They took things too fast and suddenly the entire relationship just burns up into flames.
On the other hand, controlling the speed of how things happen is completely in your hands, and it absolutely is one of the secrets to how to make him miss you. Maybe the first few weeks, you decide you’ll only see him on weekends, and never stay the night. Over time, you might have a sleepover every few weeks.
That can increase as you get closer, but always be prepared to have time off from one another, or go home after a date rather than crashing at his house.
Kelley Johnson, PhD, a clinical sexologist based in North Carolina, says to have the conversation about the speed of your relationship early:
“Talking about [your boundaries] early on and making sure your partner is on the same page and has an understanding of who you are is so important.”
Setting boundaries early keeps you from hurting his feelings later when you say you want some space, or want to give him some. But you’ll both benefit from it.
He’ll miss you, I guarantee.
5. Leave a Little Mystery in the Conversation
Now, there’s a reason why when we watch a trailer for a movie we can’t wait to watch the movie. Because we get, of course, a taste of what the movie is all about but we have no idea what the whole full picture is about. We certainly don’t know how it ends.
The same thing happens when you’re first getting to know a new guy. (This is especially true if you’re using dating apps, where there is, for some reason, a propensity for grilling every man and getting as much detail about his life, career, and history as possible before even that first date!)
You don’t need to tell him your three biggest life accomplishments on that first date. Spread it out a little bit.
Keep him wanting more.
Maybe you mention how you broke your arm in 12th grade, but then say well, that’s a story for another date!
That makes him look forward to the next time you’re together, when he can ask you about that crazy scar on your elbow.
It can be tempting to lay it all out on the table at once: relationship history, funny family stories, why you love your job…I get it. You’re bonding with this man, and you want him to know everything there is to know about you, and vice versa.
But doling out this data over time helps keep the relationship moving at a slow, steady pace (see #4), and always gives you more to talk about.
And when he believes there’s more depth to you, when he knows he wants to keep seeing you… he’s going to miss you. He’s going to want to dive into that complex person that is you, even if you only give him a nugget at a time.
Conclusion: How to Make Him Miss You? Stop Trying So Hard
When considering how to make him miss you the most, realize that if you put less attention into that area and simply focused on being the best girlfriend possible, that in and of itself will make him miss you and your attention.
It’s all about being confident in who you are and knowing you’re so completely missable that he’d be insane not to yearn for you when you’re apart.
Also, ask yourself why you’re so concerned about him missing you. Do you feel insecure about the future of your relationship? Is there cause for those feelings, or do you just need to feel more certain of him?
It may be that you don’t have enough fulfilling activities and interests in your life, and now you’re desperate to know you have his attention when you aren’t together. In that case, as I said in #2, get a life. What did you enjoy doing before you met, or even when you were young and had more free time?
It might be time to take up crocheting, hiking, or salsa dancing. These are all hobbies that, should he not be around, can occupy your brain and hands.
And you never know; he may be missing you and just not telling you. But it takes two to tango; make sure you’re communicating that you miss him, and he’ll be sure to reciprocate.
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Hey Adam,
I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months, and he is suddenly pulling back. Distant, and is doing the first week thing of not texting or communicating.
Can I still do the distance thing now?
You may want to have an open conversation with him to see if there’s an underlying issue behind his behavior. This video is slightly more designed for single women than women in long term relationships.
Awesome advice, I agree 100%…
I have a question for you, what if he gets too rough when we play around play wrestle that he hurts me and or pushes me away in a rough mannor. Who used to be really relaxed and playful but now it seems like he purposely tries to hurt me… Maybe its what guys do when they get comfortable in a relationship, but I don’t like it.
You said the magic words. “I don’t like it.” For me now would be the time to walk away. If it makes you feel uncomfortable there is a reason for your feelings. Always listen to your gut feelings, your gut won’t lie.
This is a really smart idea. If your guy isn’t being easy on you, the best thing you can do is just tell him.☺
Id tell him what is acceptable and what is not and if be continues wjth what is not I would tell him what you are taking a break and why. That you have told him what you dont like but….and now you must take a break.. Matbe a break will make him reconsider your request.
5 months is not a long term relationship!!
I agree. Maybe he thought it said five years.
Yes ,definitely I thought too. .. maybe you should give him distance✌
i agree
Hey, I wished I had this advise a year ago. I simply smothered my then boyfriend to death. I was obsessive. Learned a lot still looking for new guy, but not with urgency. Thank you
Hi everyone . I need an advice . My relatioship with my patner is always been unstable but i feel we are really at the edge now . We know eachother for 2 years and the first year he did the impossible to be with me but now that I ‘m in love with him and 6 months ago we moved together he changed . He doesn’t text me or call me even on his day off and he said he doesn’t feel to be around me all the time and sometime he feels he loves me sometimes he doesn’t… Read more »
He is at a comfort zone and u need to let him know your not dealing with the painful feeling he’s giving u! This happened to me and I end up finding out he had another woman on the side but couldn’t handle the fact of me leaving
These actions could lead to a break up… I have delt with this in a situation with my ex. This usually means that he is moving on or does not feel like his feeling for you is strong anymore.
well, at some point in life we have to understand and keep patience to save our relationship. give him some space but don’t give up on ur relationship if you truly love him. wait for the right time when he will know the worth of ur love and u. then u will live a happy life with him
I broke up with my boyfriend what must I do guyz !!! I still have big feeling for himI know that it’s triffids , exhausted and motivated
I don’t know I break up and go back, he does not call just text when I text first. When I ask if I’m his only girl, he gets mad and threaten never to call me if I accuse him of having another girl . Dang it I do like him a lot , we are both 61
Ex boyfriend called while in nc. He was talkative, a little flirty. Said he will call back. That was 3 days ago. What shall I do.
Forget about him and move on. Rude of him to flirt and leave you hanging. There are better guys for you out there who will treat you with respect. Hope all is well with you. My response comes three years after. Would’ve written earlier than I seen it back then.
What should I ask him. Or should I wait for him to call being that I am doing a nc.
Adam, amazing video, I am impressed! Please keep up the good work! I am a single woman and I have responded to a handsome man’s flirts after like 2 months of him making it more obvious…I have put the breaks on from the beginning and to my surprise he kept insisting and making it more obvious! Here is the catch: I have rewarded him by teasing him a bit and introducing myself and being bold a little bit, bc I wanted him to get a reward and to know what he’s been doing is what I like…however, once I got… Read more »
Hi Alexandra, This is exactly what happens to me. A lot. Do everything by the book and it does not produce results. Generally you suddenly see these guys with some bland Miss Piggy woman a month or so later. From what I have understood so far, these men think they are not good enough for you. Unfortunately, I never found any way of solving this. Once they believe this, you cannot change it. Only he can. Just find a guy who thinks he IS worthy of you. Very hard to find. Classy agency is your best bet.
OMG!!!! Yes!!!! I met a great guy last year. and another one this year well a few since my move to Las Vegas actually!! Im not gonna brag but my momma gave birth to a beauty and I can’t hide it on my worst day. I’m intelligent, sweet and spicy saucy, intuitive. I work out and have a very nice natural body and no im not in my 20’s or 30’s either. everywhere i go almost everyday i get noticed by men and women alike. ive come to the conclusion that some of these me DO NOT BELIEVE THEY DESERVE… Read more »
Modesty may be more attractive to these men. Lmao.
M, you said exactly what I was thinking.
Agreed
lots of men like women who are interested in them and not just obsessed with themselves. Some of these plain women can be sweet, warm and humble. Try it.
Beauty is a weird concept, a guy might think someone is super pretty and the other not his type. This is more about attractiveness. Honestly physical appearance is not the most important thing. Guys like smart girls, intelligent woman. Sorry but you don’t really sound like one, and believe me I do consider myself a very attractive woman but without brain is shit
Well Dee, you do not sound all that boastful to me! I am glad you are happy with yourself and yes guys get intimidated, My guy friends have revealed. Some even married say why did I not talk to you when we were both single! I am not beautiful like you probably but get attention. Being approachable is important in all of it… but it is the full package so be happy, the right guy will come along. I gave a little time to a local guy. He did go for the a lady that has issues- lets just say… Read more »
Do not lower your standards.
Compromise if you like him but do not accept what you cant
Hi Adam,
So I met this guy about 3 weeks ago online and if was very much like the scenario you showed in your video. At least for the first week. I was then out of town for a week preparing to move my stuff to another state. He flew out to hel0 me drive the truck. However, since returning, it feels like he’s pulling away. I’m giving him the space, but I fear he won’t come back. Any suggestion?
Hi Heather, I see how common is for men to pull away, even if BEFORE going out for getting to know each other a little better, to basically see if we are/not a good match, as in my OWN CASE (read above). If I allowed Adam’s videos to sink in a bit, my own opinion would be that WE GIVE TO MUCH FUSS about these guys! Seriously! At least in my case, I introduced myself,, I teased him a bit and initiate a flirtatious funny SHORT conversation to give him the hint that I am INTERESTED (after I had seen… Read more »
I feel like a guy is into me if he calls or texts something immediately after the first date. If we say goodbye and I don’t hear anything then I figure he had liked me but he didn’t like me that much! I almost always have good dates but one of us doesn’t feel a spark. So when we both agree to a second date, I feel more excited if the guy texts or calls me the next day. Nothing major just something to show me he’s thinking of me. I never ask a guy to be exclusive with me.… Read more »
Very,very similar happened to me.so I texted him saying I missed seeing him,but since it goes days to hear back from him if I text,that I will take it as a hint he isn’t into me,and I hope he has a good life.(not bitchy or nutty,just honest)always had fun together when together.well.he gets kinda chapped at me,says via text.”don’t do that”well,he had also mentioned that he” wasn’t good with phone”wow,6 days in between texts.I am a single mom and live an hour and a half away,so trying to make “some sort of plan” is important.so why if he doesn’t text,call,does… Read more »
Hey Adam, this is good, i will try thoes five things.
thank you
Dear Adam, We broke up with my ex last March and he wanted it, he suddenly cut everything after a nice day we spent together and it was a new kinda relationship for 2.5 months (I know you think I am crazy but it was intense 2.5 months 🙂 and he called me as girlfriend after 2 weeks and after 1.5months he said that I don’t remember lmfabo ) )He is also divorced man 6 years ago. I used no contact rule and it kinda worked. As you said, that distance helped me to understand what was wrong by my… Read more »
Hi Adam,
This is great advice! However, I may be a little too late in receiving it. I like this guy and we had an amazing connection for a couple months. As soon as I decided he was someone I wanted to be with, we started doing everything together and I began outwardly letting him know I care. Now he seems barely interested at all. Is there recovery from this or is it time to just move on? Thank you
Adam, can you, please, respond shortly to us, the ones we posted replies in here? At least a quick guidance about what you think the missing point of the big picture is in each of us situations! I don’t want to post a reply again on you tube. I just bought your book and another program, but until I will have the time to go through the entire thing and figure myself out WHERE I did wrong/or WHERE HE doesn’t pick up the pace, I could really use your educated smell that says it as it is! My guy is… Read more »
Hello Adam. Thanks for offering such an exciting post and video. You’ve HIT the nail on the head! From my experience, yes, men totally enjoy their SPACE and we should make sure they get it. Respect his space and have him respect yours. Confident women with a touch of mystery and charm will most likely excite men to pursue and return again and again. I enjoy spontaneity and time spent exclusively enjoying my own range of soothing pleasures. First enjoy loving yourself – having a massage, facial, pedicure, and or just spending time at favorite events with other special friends… Read more »
that was an excellent video adam
BIG like
Hi Adam, Great videos and ebook! I found your website and youtube at the perfect time. I have a question/scenerio thats driving me insane. I know a guy for years and we finally kissed at a social event with friends. He then invites me to his families wedding and introduces me to his family, who turned out to love me. We had a great time and he was a complete gentleman. He even confessed that was attracted me to a year ago but never pursued me. He has personal family issues come up and I haven’t heard from him in… Read more »
Wow! Sure wish I had seen this video sooner! I had the best guy and did things all wrong. Thank you for that video. Im going to take notes and read it daily!!!
Sincerely,
Miss Jones
Hey Adam I slept with a guy too soon and have been sleeping with him I don’t feel like he’s looking for anything serious cause he said he wants to take things slow after it all happened. I know he sees other women he told me he likes me an sees himself with me but not right now because he said he doesn’t think it will take much for us to get in a relationship so he wants to let more time pass he invited me to go on vacation with him I don’t know what any of this means… Read more »
Hi Adam, I had a guy start chatting with me from a dating site for a few day, but we never talk on the phone. The last day we chatted he didn’t talk as much as the other days. My issue with men is they just want to talk about sex and I refuse because if that is all they want, then that is all it is, in my opinion. So the last day we were not able to meet in the afternoon per his request which I don’t normally do and he mentions maybe tomorrow which was Friday. He… Read more »
Hi Adam –
My boyfriend of almost four years broke up with me and I’m so sad. He’s been reaching out to check on me for the first four days and then just dropped off. How would this article apply to my situation? I’m not clinging to the hope of him coming back, but there’s always a chance he’ll miss me and realize what he lost. I’ve been initiating no contact with him.
Hey! I’m 19& I may have a crush on this guy who approached me in WhatsApp! I was distant at first cuz that’s what I’m like with strangers ,especially guys, who tries to talk to me even when I make it clear that I don’t want to have a conversation with them. But now its been two months and turns out he is not some stranger, he is in same college as me and we have two out of four classes together. We usually chat all day, and at college he now sits beside me/with me. But now that I’m… Read more »
I am older women I guess Cena younger guy that’s like 20 years younger than me it was supposed to be a one night stand it’s been over and I finally told him I liked him and he doesn’t know what to say he’s really young early twenties
and we’ve been missing out for over a year
will I’m age 16 names Kaitlyn and my ex tried to call and I lied and said that I would report him to the cops if he talked to me again. that was because I freaked out. it was to soon. now he misses me and it’s about the 5 month since dating him for one week in a half like 5 months ago. back in November. text me on my Instagram: stylegirl1.
I don’t know what else to do
Hey so I met a really cool guy when he was out here on holiday.. we really connected had an amazing time together he said he would keep in contact and I could go visit in a few months.
Well since he’s got home his messages have stopped was it just a holiday fling and he was just stringing me along? We really connected I miss him but don’t know if I should reach out to him anymore.
I really like this man who is 20 years older, married and has a really I’ll wife who is 4 years older than him. I want to take it slow because I’m really in for the long haul, don’t mind waiting for him but I don’t wish to return to an adulterous relationship, I want to marry.
You’re great!!
maybe you should lead someone on for as long as you do before showing that kind of attention back. and you wonder why men think their not good enough for you resulting in pulling away. not being funny but too many women out there expect the men to try try and try only for THEM to get the so called ‘reward’. ever considered making it a mutual thing and not all female onesided letting the man feel like he has to earn some kind of reward..
And you know this guy for 13 years. We started dating a year-and-a-half ago. But we get into little arguments because he talks to his ex-girlfriend and he lies to me about it. And now we have broken up and he still doing the same thing. Is it worth it to try to work things out. Or he will never change.
Been with my boyfriend for 6 years we have 2 beautiful Little boys together And about 2 weeks ago He started to get distant with me and I kept trying to plan stuff to do with him and you kept blowing me off And 5 days ago he broke it off with me But wants me to still live with him And sleep with him But we’re not together I don’t know what to think or how to feel All I know is that I don’t wanna be with anybody else but him I can’t get you another man in… Read more »
Build yourself up emotionally; accept how he has come to “view himself”; but, whatever you do, don’t allow yourself to succumb to his self serving subtle bigotry. Cry, if you must, but please don’t try to hold on to him. And, by the grace of God get out sooner than later while your children don’t really know the difference. He isn’t going to get better… . He knows what he is doing; so, you must learn what you must do for you and your children. Put a plan in place…contact a domestic violence shelter. Here is a good book to… Read more »
This is the most selfish circumstance. Basically, he wants an “open relationship”. He wants all the benefits of a marriage, but wont commit his faithfulness to uou. He has decided he wants to see other women. This is the day you leave him. Here hes a father that wont stay in a relationship with his children’s mother!!!!!
WOMEN: IF THE GUY DOESNT MARRY AFTER A YEAR…….GUESS WHAT: THEY WILL NEVER MARRY.
Whatever you do, dont give yourself to an undeserving man agai.n
well been dating for a 1yrear and 1/2 really like this guy but he knows that and he distance himself never married hitting 50 yrs old but i see hes unhappy. i kept comming around felt like we connected. might be just me but he said he does like me but not enough. Any suggestions?
Hi ,Adam I m Simran i m from India ,,, Me and my bf are in a long distance relationship since 5 yrs… Now I m 21 when I met him I was 17 u can say a childhood love but we are grown older and I m feeling like now his behaviour is changing he won’t give me time but when talk he always talk pleasant way and show me love and affection but I want his time but he ignores me in that position and when he becomes angry he abused me also I don’t know what should… Read more »
I listen to your Video. ..How to Make Him miss you. I really wish I would have listen to your video before hand I did everything wrong because I wasnt aware. Well low and behold he broke up with me and it hurt pretty badly for 4months. I can see in his eyes it hurt him to do that. We both had strong feelings for each other and the Love making was on the top of the chart. Ive learned alot from now to then. He’s back in my Life and I truly Love him as if he never left… Read more »
2 months ago I reconnected with the love of my life from 20 years ago. He calls me very night and we talk on the phone for hours. We are both single. Ive hinted to him that im interested in more than a friendship but he doesnt respond and changes the conversation. I havent hinted anymore. He hasnt even mentioned about seeing each other. We live in the same city. He is having a rough financial time right now. He even had to sell his car. Am I in the friend zone or should I wait to see if this… Read more »
When I was younger I always used to real men in and then cast them back out. So when I was with them I was fun, talked about them more than me and didn’t ever nag them but as soon as the day/night ended I wouldn’t call or text (or even really think about them) til they got back in touch. Men love women like that. Since having kids and now being single again it’s not quite so easy due to lack of spare time and me worrying that each person isn’t going to be good enough for the rest… Read more »
hi
wonder if someone texts they told you they have no life til after the holidays after you texted hello and what’s new? someone I only saw for a few hours..
Do not worry. has the reply to all these questions.
Hi Adam my boyfriend is acting weird I don’t know whether he don’t love me anymore but then I love him and I CNT love someone besides him….HELP!!!
Hi Adam
I met a guy on a website some while ago, we met and it went great – was long distance. After a year, i didnt hear from him. Fast forward to last year September, i heard from him out of the blue, we chatted again for almost 2 months. We were to meet somewhere, but he didnt answer me back with a time. Was i being messed with? ( he ‘s very busy with his work, 1 kid at school). Should i just forget about him?
hi adam, im 20 and im in a 4 year relationship with my boyfriend who is 21. We know each other for 5 years now. We’re best friends and a couple. when we are together, noting but laugher and love but during the last couple of months, he’s been pulling back, he’s even gotten to the point to break up with me for a few days, then he came back saying that he need his space to learn how to control himself (when he gets angry and says things just to hurt my feelings even though they arent true) im… Read more »
Hi Adam. I’ve been talking to a man I met on pof for 6 weeks. We get along incredibly well, have very long phone conversations laugh a lot. He pursued me hardcore until I gave in to a date. Went out twice got along great. He always begged me to come over to snuggle at night. So one night I finally get up the nerve to go over but no official invite that particular night, thought it would be a cute surprise. He was drinking with friends that night (he went out and I had a previous engagement as well)… Read more »
Hi Adam, am from Nigeria, i have being talking to a guy i met on dating app for some days now he seems really good & we talked alot he lives in USA but promise to visit me soon in my country i really like him, but there’s something wired about him, not up to 5days we met he talks about sex & how he want us to make babies together for me i think is too early to say such things i feel his faking it, now i always text him first before we start a conversation though his… Read more »
Hi … I have a baby boy with my boyfriend but nowdays he doesn’t even bother calling me unless I call him… Am too pissed off and I want to end the relationship but he says that he loves me but there are no actions showing this… What should I do? Please give me advice as soon as possible
its true and very informative.
Hi can you help me please me and my ex partner was together 9 years but things have got really bad to the point it’s gone to court I had to get orders on him because he wasn’t listening to anything or anyone but I really want to talk to him to explain it all to him I see him everyday at the school but we don’t speak it’s very hard we have a child together too do you see us sorting this out?? I’ve been told he looks very down and misses me but he’s very stubborn to admit… Read more »
Hi Adam my bf and I have been together, he always call me, text me, he always tell me aw he miss me and wishes he will be seeing me everyday. This is my first relationship. We always see each other ones a week and he always make love to me
And I don’t want dat
I love him a lot and he always say he love me more
I don’t want him to always get wat he want at dat moment
I don’t no wat to do
Pls I need an advice plsss
hi can you help ? me and my boyfriend were together for 15 months and i miss him more than i can explain. i have three classes with him, but less than a month of us breaking up, he got with another girl… do you think that he still thinks about me? i really want to try to talk to him and be close again but i’m not sure how that would work because he broke up with me because i was ‘too much for him’ because i was upset with him talking to lots of other girls. i just… Read more »
Hi, Alex
this is so me, i never give men space, i always give to much so soon, and i am always to open with them. Then one of my men friends sad the less you give the more you get, is that right? Iwatch all your videos there are so goood
Thank you so much
Hi – I have recently been getting to know a guy I met on Tinder – I am 48 & he is 44 (age is a pure number for me conenectio is what matters to me) we have been chatting everyday for 5 weeks and we have seen each other 4 times in this timeframe. He is a Taurus and I am a Capricorn – being a Capricorn I naturally give all at the start of and once in a relationship & I told him this at our first date and he said that was a rare quality – I… Read more »
I have a boyfriend who is always making me sad we have been together for a year we are in the same school what will I do to him in other to make him miss me
HI there, SO I am in a over 2 year relationship with an amazing guy. He is a IT and Gamer and the most amazing guy ever. I have been trying all I can “google” and think off to make him ‘want me more” ,got some new undies and all BUT NOTHING. I asked him what the problem was as I have lost some weight and thought it might have been my body but he keeps telling me that i am the most beautiful girl ever and that he want me BUT he is just under a lot off stress… Read more »
Hi Adam, I’ve been with a guy for a year and he is my bestfriend, lover and all I could think of. he once complained I was always busy and I started giving him time and all. made me love him more and he’s the inky guy I want to be with and get married to. but recently, he’s been acting all strange and gets angry with me easily. hangs up the call when I cry on the phone too. he’s never been that way. hearing me cry used to make him worried he’s hurt me. doesn’t care anymore… I’m… Read more »
I met a guy about 1 week ago. He was working and answered my question and the next thing he asked me was if i wanted to date. I was in shock and changed the subject quickly, but he continued to pursue me, which i finally gave in and said ok ill meet u here on christmas day, which is almost 2 months away, neither of us got names or phone numbers, im so confused, i am interested in him but why would he wait so long to see me again, ??