Create Your Love Story
Do you feel like the only guys that are chasing you, are the guys you DON’T want?
And when you finally start falling for a guy, he doesn’t chase you…
Well, all of that nonsense stops today. In this week’s video I teach you three strategies that will make any man chase you.
Watch the video “How to Make Him Chase You”
Have you ever chased a guy and regretted it? I’d love to hear from you, leave a comment below.
Your Bud,
Adam
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I have chased guys in my life and it never seems to work out. From now on, it’s only the sexy confidence way of life. Thank you Adam!
I know it can be difficult to pull back, but it’s worth it and is massively effective.
Loved the video, especially the dramatics you bring…..really makes the information easier to learn. I’ve chased thinking I had to show him I’m the better catch, but it doesn’t work. I can see why now. Thanks!!! Trying the confidence way!!
YES! Awesome video as usual. I love your stuff Adam!
Thank you so much 😛
This is great!
Yes this is great
Very helpful, It is hard to pull back. Dating others is the best thing to do really.
I agree with the above said comment, love your stuff, Adam. Will add, I do all the 3 pointers you mentioned in the video. I even get asked for 2nd dates, however nothing transpires after the 2nd date 🙁
Hi adam, thank you so much for your short but effective tips.. I need more how can I stop myself from texting him.. When i think he might forgotten me, it makes me seriously crazy.. Even after two months and half of breaking up, I wish he comes to me maybe , since he told me he doesn’t want marriage after 9 months of relationship…and I decided to break up until he comes to me seriously but now while I have seen him twice since then but I have texted him alot ..
Have any tips on how to get guys that you’re not interested in to stop chasing you?
Adam,
Just recently I’ve spent waaaaaaaaay too much time with a man I liked trying to be his go to girl. He turned out not to be the man I initially thought he was but kept stringing me along to run his errands, feed him and be his sounding board for temper tantrums. As a natural nurturer, I felt needed but never wanted. He recently risked my life and I have terminated contact with him.
Thank you for showing me the right way to find a man who will want me for me.
Awesome video 🙂
This is so true ladies, believe me. It is fine to initiate flirting and let a guy know subtly you like him but don’t ask him out! If he likes you and is interested in knowing you more, he will ask you. Sucks to have to wait but guys like the chase.
I went out with a guy for a year since he kept asking me out once per month but once I confronted him and told him that I liked him, he backed away and said he has “issues”….if a guy likes you, he will let you know!
I been chase by two men but I didn’t like one of the guy because he not my type and I like the other as friend because he has kids of his own.
Would this by any chance work for an ex? A very recent ex. Thanks 🙂
Wonderful video! I realy love the progress that you’re doing in making videocontent!
Thank you Adam for the effective tips on this video! I look forward to more of your videos.
This is great Adam, I watch your advises for reassurance as the truth is, a guy has to chase a girl, because it is just the way it is, a girl has to be a prize and he has to be crazy about a girl, if he is not into us girls, we set ourselves for pain and suffering….
But what do you do when there is no one else to date? Im in a small town…the pickings are slim…the only men who want me are men I would never be interested in…I wont settle because I know I am the prize…
I have been seeing this guy for over three years and I fell deeply i love with him and he said he love me too but the way he love me is different from the way I love him, sometime I just feel like walking away but I just can leave. I feel as if I am additive to him and can’t get away from him cause no matter how much I try to stay away from him as soon as he call me I am there, I try so many time to irnose is call but in the end I answer it. I have really try to stay away from him but I have Never been in love before so I am really stuck and don’t know what ot how to deal with him. Sometime he can get really nasty to me by saying really hurtful things to me. If anyone have any ideas to help me Please. Please. Help me as I really want to broke away from him as right now I feel he is the wrong guy for me.
I’m dating this really nice but too pretty and handsome guy, I say “too” because I guess is the type of guys every girl would like to have.
I’m so glad sexy confidence exist. I’m using the recommendations and it’s really working, now is all about not chasing him!!!!
Adam, how many days should we give to the guy, before we call him or text him again,,,, before he forgets?
Hi Adam
Quick question do you make him aware that you are dating other men?
I have been chatting to this guy in whatsapp for 2 years already. I sent him sweet quotes and makes notes and edits his pictures and sometimes with my photos .. sweet and sometimes funny which makes him laugh sometimes. In 2 years often our chats was usually Hi .. hello .. how are you .. a bit boring sometimes. We have not met . I know he’s not that scam type of thing online as he sends recent pics and travels , voicenotes etc. He travels around asia and back to his country. I am totally attracted to him and sending kisses and sometimes he sends kisses back. A month ago was bit ok as he seems to be sweet . But now he rarely sends message and reply. It breaks my heart to back off as it seems I am getting used to sending him message 3-4x a week. But maybe its time to move on and follow your advice . Thank you for posting such very humurous and helpful videos .
Yes, I chased a man that flirted with me for a year! Made every advance, EXCEPT ask me out! I finally asked for his number…he was so excited! He was a complete jerk and lost interest after he hooked me..so I chased..waste of my time and effort
Thank you Adam, I broke up with my guy 2 months ago. I pulled back after I was that crazy texting girl he now is chasing me but hes still hot and cold, hes confused if he wants me back or not. Hes asked me if i am seeing anyone or go on dates I am truthful and say no. I am trying to find a place of my own, but no luck. He throws things in my face and I now have put a stop to that this shit is hard setting boundries and wanting to go home meaning his place I lived with him for a year and a half. I am showing him that I value me and he should too, again thank you. : )
Yes, I took a long time to even date once–over 40–it scared me to death. I had no father interaction. My mom always told me I was the less attractive of her 3 daughters and my brothers treated me like a boy. So, I never learned that “je ne sais quoi.”. I’m very smart but got co-constructed as the incredibly smart, friendly girl who was your best friend. I can’t tell you how many guys consider me their “best friend.” Ugh…So I met a new man and though I felt that “girly rush” like I have never experienced before, I faux pased. We were really compatible, 2 geeks, but I totally overwhelmed him. I just let it flow OUT. I’ve been working on myself a long time-2 years since then. I can’t stop feeling embarrassed that I had no skills, no knowledge of men. I was clueless why he just left. And now 2 years later I still feel stupid. And he wrote me on social media–not romantic–just friendly and even though we were really close friends, I don’t want any more guy friends….so I was just an unconscious “chaser” and I want to stay hiding from my unlearned behavior. And watching your videos only makes me realize how ridiculous I was. 🙂 Geez.
I met this one guy and I thought we hit it off, and as soon as he got my attention. Poof… he was gone. I didn’t send a text, cause it was proof that he was not interested. So I’m looking forward to your videos. For the next time.
Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we got engaged i chased him just for attention and he was always busy where he didnt find time for me , (plus long distance) but he turned everything on me saying i nag and so on and we broke up. It was hard and we both cried but he didnt do any effort ! One day he will realize what he lost (-;