How to Make Him Chase You

I have chased guys in my life and it never seems to work out. From now on, it’s only the sexy confidence way of life. Thank you Adam!

YES! Awesome video as usual. I love your stuff Adam!

This is great!

Very helpful, It is hard to pull back. Dating others is the best thing to do really.

I agree with the above said comment, love your stuff, Adam. Will add, I do all the 3 pointers you mentioned in the video. I even get asked for 2nd dates, however nothing transpires after the 2nd date 🙁

Hi adam, thank you so much for your short but effective tips.. I need more how can I stop myself from texting him.. When i think he might forgotten me, it makes me seriously crazy.. Even after two months and half of breaking up, I wish he comes to me maybe , since he told me he doesn’t want marriage after 9 months of relationship…and I decided to break up until he comes to me seriously but now while I have seen him twice since then but I have texted him alot ..

Have any tips on how to get guys that you’re not interested in to stop chasing you?

Adam,
Just recently I’ve spent waaaaaaaaay too much time with a man I liked trying to be his go to girl. He turned out not to be the man I initially thought he was but kept stringing me along to run his errands, feed him and be his sounding board for temper tantrums. As a natural nurturer, I felt needed but never wanted. He recently risked my life and I have terminated contact with him.
Thank you for showing me the right way to find a man who will want me for me.

Awesome video 🙂

This is so true ladies, believe me. It is fine to initiate flirting and let a guy know subtly you like him but don’t ask him out! If he likes you and is interested in knowing you more, he will ask you. Sucks to have to wait but guys like the chase. I went out with a guy for a year since he kept asking me out once per month but once I confronted him and told him that I liked him, he backed away and said he has “issues”….if a guy likes you, he will let you know!

I been chase by two men but I didn’t like one of the guy because he not my type and I like the other as friend because he has kids of his own.

Would this by any chance work for an ex? A very recent ex. Thanks 🙂

Wonderful video! I realy love the progress that you’re doing in making videocontent!

Thank you Adam for the effective tips on this video! I look forward to more of your videos.

This is great Adam, I watch your advises for reassurance as the truth is, a guy has to chase a girl, because it is just the way it is, a girl has to be a prize and he has to be crazy about a girl, if he is not into us girls, we set ourselves for pain and suffering….

But what do you do when there is no one else to date? Im in a small town…the pickings are slim…the only men who want me are men I would never be interested in…I wont settle because I know I am the prize…

I have been seeing this guy for over three years and I fell deeply i love with him and he said he love me too but the way he love me is different from the way I love him, sometime I just feel like walking away but I just can leave. I feel as if I am additive to him and can’t get away from him cause no matter how much I try to stay away from him as soon as he call me I am there, I try so many time to irnose is call but in the end… Read more »

I’m dating this really nice but too pretty and handsome guy, I say “too” because I guess is the type of guys every girl would like to have.
I’m so glad sexy confidence exist. I’m using the recommendations and it’s really working, now is all about not chasing him!!!!
Adam, how many days should we give to the guy, before we call him or text him again,,,, before he forgets?

Hi Adam

Quick question do you make him aware that you are dating other men?

I have been chatting to this guy in whatsapp for 2 years already. I sent him sweet quotes and makes notes and edits his pictures and sometimes with my photos .. sweet and sometimes funny which makes him laugh sometimes. In 2 years often our chats was usually Hi .. hello .. how are you .. a bit boring sometimes. We have not met . I know he’s not that scam type of thing online as he sends recent pics and travels , voicenotes etc. He travels around asia and back to his country. I am totally attracted to him… Read more »

Yes, I chased a man that flirted with me for a year! Made every advance, EXCEPT ask me out! I finally asked for his number…he was so excited! He was a complete jerk and lost interest after he hooked me..so I chased..waste of my time and effort

Thank you Adam, I broke up with my guy 2 months ago. I pulled back after I was that crazy texting girl he now is chasing me but hes still hot and cold, hes confused if he wants me back or not. Hes asked me if i am seeing anyone or go on dates I am truthful and say no. I am trying to find a place of my own, but no luck. He throws things in my face and I now have put a stop to that this shit is hard setting boundries and wanting to go home meaning… Read more »

Yes, I took a long time to even date once–over 40–it scared me to death. I had no father interaction. My mom always told me I was the less attractive of her 3 daughters and my brothers treated me like a boy. So, I never learned that “je ne sais quoi.”. I’m very smart but got co-constructed as the incredibly smart, friendly girl who was your best friend. I can’t tell you how many guys consider me their “best friend.” Ugh…So I met a new man and though I felt that “girly rush” like I have never experienced before, I… Read more »

I met this one guy and I thought we hit it off, and as soon as he got my attention. Poof… he was gone. I didn’t send a text, cause it was proof that he was not interested. So I’m looking forward to your videos. For the next time.

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Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 years and we got engaged i chased him just for attention and he was always busy where he didnt find time for me , (plus long distance) but he turned everything on me saying i nag and so on and we broke up. It was hard and we both cried but he didnt do any effort ! One day he will realize what he lost (-;