Life is just more fun when you’re surrounded by fun and interesting people, don’tcha think?
But don’t worry if you’re not a natural when it comes to “winning friends and influencing people” yet…
In today’s video, I’m going to share some simple strategies that you can use to immediately start attracting the right kind of people into your life.
Check it out:
Try these methods out for yourself and see just how fast your social life changes. Let me know your experience in the comments below.
Warning: more people WILL want to be your friend and spend time around you… so strap in and get ready for the ride!
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You probably want other people to like you, but most of us don’t put much thought into this.
So I’d like you spend 10 seconds, 10 seconds right now, thinking about why it is people should like you.
I have a sneaking suspicion that some of you were thinking of things like: I’m really funny, I’m very accomplished, I’m super smart… If you were thinking that’s why most people like you, then chances are most people don’t like you.
Getting people to like you has nothing to do with how great you are. It has to do with how you make other people feel.
A lot of clients I’ve worked with who experience overwhelming anxiety in social situations are focused far too much on themselves. I’ve always told them to focus their energy on the person they are talking with.
1. Ask great questions and then fully listen to their response.
There are 2 ways to listen to someone. There’s “listening” and then there’s listening.
If you can get someone talking about something they love, they will love you.
And don’t forget to actually listen. Active listening is all about showing them that you’re taking in the information they are giving you rather than just kind of sitting there like a deer in headlights.
2. Give people genuine compliments.
Believe it or not, studies have shown that complimenting another girl on her purse will make her like you more than if you gave her 50 dollars to put in her purse.
It’s true. According to a study conducted at the National Institute for Physiological Sciences, this is what they said. To the brain, receiving a compliment is as much a social reward as being rewarded money.
But, of course, when you give compliments, don’t be fake about it. Be authentic and find something about the person that you really do like. If there really is nothing you like about that particular person, why are you trying to make them your friend anyway?
3. When you meet someone for the first time, be sure to use their first name a lot when you’re talking to them.
Back when I used to coach men on how to meet, approach, and flirt with women, I would always tell them to use the woman’s name at least 3 times in the first few minutes of meeting her. What it does is it builds a bond between the two of you. It makes it seem like you’ve known each other for a very long time. And on top of that, if you say someone’s name 3 times, you’re probably never going to forget it. It’s a really good practice when you’re going out, meeting new people, and making new friends.
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