What does it take to be attractive to the object of your desires?
Body like Beyoncé?
Bootie like J. Lo?
Wrong. So wrong.
Here’s a clue: it’s not about the physical.
In this video, I share four little tidbits that can make you the most attractive woman this guy has ever laid eyes on.
They’re totally doable. No Botox or implants needed. Don’t believe me? Watch the video.
P.S. After watching this video, you’ll be ready for my Emotional Attraction Formula, which will teach you five emotional attraction triggers guaranteed to make you more appealing to the guy of your dreams.
When I say the words “attractive woman,” what comes to your mind first?
You went physical on me, didn’t you? You thought of physical attraction first, rather than the other type of attraction.
I get it.
You’ve been told by society that physical qualities are really what attracts men. Well, I’m here to tell you that this is completely wrong.
All those physical attributes may make men pursue you, and certainly may make men want to sleep with you. But they definitely don’t help you find a great relationship.
And as a matter of fact, a lot of very physically attractive women have a lot of dating troubles themselves.
So let’s get away from the physical while I help you harness this concept that I call emotional attraction.
So…What’s Emotional Attraction?
Emotional attraction is basically where a man truly cares about you on an emotional level. He wants to spend more time with you. He wants to be around you because he loves your personality and loves who you are. There’s not so much a focus on your physical attraction once he’s gotten to know you and sees there is so much more inside to love.
I’ve been talking about emotional attraction for the past five years. I’ve been teaching this to millions of women all across the world. That’s a testament to the fact that this stuff works.
Today let’s talk about just one emotional attraction trigger that you really want to focus on when you first meet men. The way to be the most attractive woman a man has ever met?
Yep. Simple, right?
Let’s play another word association here.
What do you think of when I say, “you and a guy should go have some fun.”
You thought of sex, didn’t you?
Having sex with a guy in order to attract him is what boring girls do in order to attract men.
But you’re not boring. You’re unique. So you can do better than luring a man in with your superficial beauty and your body.
I want you to be the type of woman who is playful and who can have fun and can enjoy herself when you’re on a first date, or a second date, or a third date. Being a really attractive person in general and in life — and by the way, the same thing goes for men — is all about being playful and fun. Really enjoying your time together.
Dating is all about the interactions that you have with one another, and if that experience isn’t playful and fun — and most of all, enjoyable — he’s not going to ask you out on another date.
So for starters, tease him a little bit (and no, not the sexual kind of tease!). It’s okay to have a little bit of fun. If he says something a little ridiculous, poke fun of him. It’s okay.
I first met my girlfriend, Jessica, about three years ago. One of the first things I remember about her is that she was completely willing to call me out on my bullshit. She had no problem making fun of me if I said something a little bit outrageous or if I went a little bit over the top trying to impress her.
And I found this incredibly attractive.
On that same note, feel free to be a little sarcastic sometimes. Now if you use sarcasm too much, yes, it can be definitely overwhelming. I’m sure you’ve met that guy who was just way too sarcastic and it was a turnoff. But at the same time, if you find that you’re not being playful on dates or you’re not having a good time, feel free to use a little bit of sarcasm. You’ll spice up the conversation a little bit.
Note: It’s harder to discern sarcasm via text, so save it for face-to-face interactions so he doesn’t mistake your sarcasm for something else.
Next, be somewhat impulsive. If you’re on date with a guy and the conversation’s getting dull, grab his hand, tell him to come with you, and go play basketball. Or walk barefoot in the grass. Do something unexpected and unplanned.
And finally, don’t be afraid to have some inside jokes. Inside jokes are a great way to really bond with a man because these jokes are something that only you two know about. It’s like this secret that no one else knows, and once you start to develop inside jokes together as you get to know a guy, it’s amazing how much it brings you two together.
There’s a Time and Place for Serious
Now you’re noticing a theme with the suggestions I’ve made. They’re all about being playful and fun. But I need you to remember, of course, that I’m not saying that relationships and who you ultimately settle down with needs to be this laid back. I want you to be very playful when you’re going out on a date, when you’re talking to people, and when you’re meeting new people.
The worst thing that you can do when you are dating and meeting new guys is to be overly serious and focused. Don’t turn a first date into an interrogation. I can almost guarantee you that if you are sitting down across from a guy and you are being totally serious and telling him how important it is for you to find a relationship, I guarantee he will never, ever call you again.
But be very serious and intentional about who you settle down with. Know what you’re looking for in a long-term partner. Don’t take that decision lightly.
But do have fun as you get to know the guy you’re with!
So there you have it. You can be the most attractive woman he’s ever met if you can apply playfulness to your encounters together.
Do you also find it attractive when a man can be playful with you? Leave a comment below and tell me what attracts you to him.